In Ebonyi state, first wives demonstrate their anger against
their husbands for taking second wives by setting the ‘intruders’
ablaze, and making sure they are burnt to death.
Women are generally cast in the mold of meek, compassionate and in
fact weaker vessels when it comes to emotional issues and tasks
requiring practical display of energy. But that gentle and fragile mien
pales into insignificance when it comes to defending their territory in
matters of love and matrimonial relationships.
Even the Holy Bible warns of the fury of an injured and jealous
woman, which is comparable to a tempestuous and destructive storm.
In less than one year, Ebonyi has been hit twice by the tragedy of
crime of passion committed by jealous first wives against those they
suspected had any love dealing with their husbands. The first wives
descended with fury to their suspected husbands’ lovers and the suspects
are not alive to tell their stories.
The most recent tragic event occurred two weeks ago at Akpoha
community in
Afikpo North local government area of the state, when a
house wife simply identified as Ogeri allegedly set her husband’s lover
ablaze.
The fire burnt the co- wife to death. Tragically too, when the
alleged offender was arrested by the police, her one-year-old child died
probably out of shock. Ogeri’s husband, Mr. UroObasi, a commercial
motor cycle operator was also arrested.
The victim of the recent Akpoha tragedy, a 22 year-old girl, whose
name was given as Miss Felicia hailed from Igbo in Abi local government
area of Cross River State. It is not yet clear if she was ever married
to Obasi, as the first wife is claiming.
The marriage theory appears to have crashed when family members
described it as false, baseless and misleading. Rather, they said that
Felicia came to the Apostolic Church Akpoha to seek solutions to her
numerous personal and psychological problems and had on arrival,
requested Obasi, a member of the same church, to assist her secure
accommodation, and even provide her with food items.
LEADERSHIP WEEKEND gathered that instead of getting accommodation for
Felicia in a different location in the town, Obasi asked her to move
into his matrimonial home.
Thereafter, he reportedly explained to his mother Mrs. Virginia Oko,
and his wife that Felicia was stranded and he decided to assist her by
bringing her to their matrimonial home.
Apparently, his wife didn’t believe the story. She was said to have
interpreted her husband’s kind gesture towards a visitor “in dire need
of assistance” to mean a veiled arrangement to take a second wife.
And filled with fury over her husband’s action, Ogeri, according to
an eye witness, emptied two litres of petrol through the back window of a
room occupied by Ogeri at about 11am while she was asleep, and
discreetly set the room ablaze.
When the fire started, the cry of the victim attracted neighbours,
who broke the door before she ran out stark naked with fire all over her
body. The neighbours could not save Felicia’s life as she gave up the
ghost on the way to the hospital.
Narrating the incident, Obasi’s mother said: “He (Uro) came to my
house and collected food and gave her (victim). My daughter-in-law
(Ogeri) came to me the next morning and told me that my son wanted to
get married to another woman.
“I replied her that my son was not going to marry the said Felicia,
insisting that she was my only daughter-in-law. I explained to her that
the girl in question was only a visitor and wanted my son to assist her
settle down in our town.”
She said that on the day of the incident, her son had gone out to
operate his okada (commercial motor cycle) business when a relation told
him that fire had gutted his house, and in the process burnt his
visitor to death.
“My son did not know all these; his intention was only to help her.
He didn’t suspect that there would be danger in trying to assist
somebody,” she said, amidst tears.
A neighbor, who spoke on condition of anonymity, stated that Ogeri
had on several occasions quarelled with her husband over the presence
of the deceased in their matrimonial home, a development which forced
some people living in the neighbourhood to appeal to Obasi to drive the
deceased away from the family house before she ruined his marriage with
Ogeri. But unknown to the concerned neighbours, the suspect had
concluded plans to take Ogeri’s life.
Before taking Ogeri’s life, the suspect had sent all her children
within the premises on different errands before sending a neighbour’s
child to fetch her petrol to burn the other woman.
Mrs. Ogbonna was reportedly arrested by the police while she was
boarding a public transport to escape arrest. It was gathered that some
passengers who recognised the woman alerted the police who arrived the
motor park shortly after to effect her arrest. She is the first wife of
her husband, but is yet to be blessed with the fruit of the womb.
Mrs. NwankwoaguNwaokpuru , the suspect’s mother –in-law, who lives
next to the house where the victims were burnt, told reporters, that
Ijeoma started behaving strangely after the traditional wedding
ceremony of the second wife was concluded three weeks before the
incident. She was said to have started sleeping outside the compound,
only to return home every morning.
Nwaokpuru said: “I was in my room one night when I heard someone
shouting Jesus …Jesus…Jesus… I quickly rushed out to see what was
happening though before then the whole place had been covered by smoke …
I saw someone, a woman, run out of the room, still shouting
Jesus…Jesus…Jesus…and she happened to be Felicia”.
Culled- Leadership News
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