[MUST READ] Secret desire: A woman’s daydreaming!!! Part 1 & 2

WARNING!!! Before you read, this piece is for Married Couples only!!! Not for Minors! 
You are WARNED!!

Part1:
Many wives harbour secret sexual desires and many husbands want to know the sexual adventures that can meet this desire. It is as simple as A.B.C.

Husbands, go down on your wives’ nipples, clitoris and vaginas carefully. Nipples, clitoral and vaginal stimulation can be the high point of foreplay to a wife. It can even be the main event of the night or an erotic need that couples return to frequently during a long luxurious sexual encounter. Manual stimulation is incredibly important for wives to have an orgasm. Most wives need a little more nipple, clitoral and vaginal contact than intercourse. Warm, wet and intimate stimulation can be just as fun and satisfying as full intercourse. Actually, 87 per cent of wives prefer nipples, clitoral and vaginal caressing to all other forms of foreplay. Many wives fantasise about lying back and having their husbands go down on them, but many cannot express it. Moreover, if you want to sexually pamper your wife or want her to be consumed literally with enticing sexual feeling, try this out tonight.

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There is something about a husband feasting his eyes, hands and mouth on his wife’s nipples, clitoris and vagina. It can translate the couple into another world of ecstasy.  The sensation of the tongue on the nipples, clitoris and vagina is usually enough to make couples hyperactive. However, according to researches many husbands do not lick the right places well or sometimes do not stay long enough to make their wives reach a climax.

We shall be looking at the practical details of nipples, clitoral and vagina stimulation today.  To fully comprehend and practise the instruction I will be giving, please bear these few facts in mind. During sex, reach down and rub your wife’s clitoris whenever possible and you are guaranteed to increase her chances of having orgasm. For many wives, manual stimulation of these areas is the only way they can reach a climax. Rubbing the nipples, vagina and the clitoris the right way is not something husbands just know how to do; it is something they have to learn. When a wife’s vagina is not yet lubricated, ‘never’ try to insert a finger or penis into it. That is legal rape.

Studies have shown that husbands staring at their wives’ breasts for 10 minutes a day can improve their total well-being. The human lips, tongues and genitals are the most sensitive parts of the body. The strongest muscle in the body is the tongue.  The tip of the clitoris has 700 nerve endings, more than the head of the penis. The most sensitive part of a woman’s vagina is the first two inches; that is where the majority of the nerve endings are located.  A woman’s skin is 10 times more sensitive to touch than men’s own.  During arousal, increased blood flow causes a woman’s breast to swell by 25 per cent, and when stimulated the vagina expand to six inches long. As a wife is turned on, blood rushes to her vulva, causing the vagina to release a smooth liquid called ‘drops of Jupiter’. The average duration of a female orgasm is six seconds. The female Japanese word for orgasm means ‘I have died and gone to heaven’. Now, carefully stimulating your wife’s nipples, clitoris and vagina can make her also utter these words.

One-step at a time is the best secret code. So while together, have your hands under her, then stroke her clitoris through her panties to build the anticipation of feeling your fingers against her wet skin.  Even if you have seen your wife’s nakedness a thousand times, don’t rush to take off her panties every time. Take the action to the next level by sliding your hand under her panties. There is more to the clitoris than meet the eyes. So, don’t just rub, start kissing your wife’s knee up to her inner thigh or from her navel down to her clitoris, then directly to her labia, and then find your way to her nipples.  A wife’s inner thighs are very sensitive. Incredibly, some wives can even have orgasm just by messaging their feet; starting your journey to the clitoris by kissing her thighs is still the best. This gives your wife intense pleasure and builds her anticipation for the thrill to come. Ask her to hold her legs up and out of the way. This allows you better access to the vagina. If you want to know if she is moaning with pleasure, ask her not to sandwich your ears with her thighs, you will be amazed by the ‘melodic rhythms’ coming your way! Pay close attention to the moaning; make sure it is not that of pain. I am sure you are enjoying this piece.

Part2

Concluding part …stimulate the clitoris and the surrounding areas with all your four fingers. Gently apply pressure using up-and-down motion, caressing slow circles, all these provide wonderful sensation and are helpful in bringing your wife to climax. You can vary the pressure and speed, depending on what she likes best. While on her clitoris paste, give several little kisses and flips of the tongue directly around it. On the other hand, you can simultaneously insert your finger into her vagina and caress it as the clitoral kissing is going on, by using the thumb to drive her wide and use the other hand to rub her pubic heap. Husband, use the tip of your tongue to brush, tap, or flip the clitoris in an up and down and/or side-to-side motion. Try it slowly, then quickly, and even more quickly.  The tap could be light or firm. This can bring a woman to a climax easily.

The other variety of clitoris simulation is the figure ‘’8’’ technique. This helps you to cover the entire surface of the clitoris. All you need to do is use your tongue to draw letter 8 alphabets on the clitoris, many husbands I have counselled have reported excellent results from this. You can also circle the clitoris with the tip of your tongue, try doing it very lightly and then with increased pressure, especially when your wife’s clitoris is very sensitive, she will prefer the kind of wide licks you would use when eating or licking an empty plate of tasty soup.

To win her heart, ask her to stand on a chair and go down on her. This makes her feel she is in control and it gives her a lot of freedom to move and respond and you will  at this point have a fantastic view and full access to the ‘holy of holies.’ Nothing impresses a wife as the ability to be ‘fingered’ when her husband is licking her clitoris. The best way to do this is to steadily lick the clitoris while very slowly sliding one or two fingers in and out of the vagina [so that your palm is facing up]. As she gets more excited, try maintaining a steady, gentleman pulsing pressure on the front [pubic hair] inside wall of the vaginal, which is where the ‘G’ spot is located. The vaginal can seem complicated if husband has not gotten up close and examined it well. To get to know it well and learn how best to please your wife, position yourself between her widely spread legs to get a good view and then start rubbing in different directions and watch what she responds to best. Notice the hood of the clitoris and the thin layer that covers it. Husband can pull it back to expose the clitoris for ‘excellent servicing.’ Some wives love being ‘fingered’ from behind, it is so thrilling and transporting; just bend your wife over the bed, the reading table, a chair,  or the couch and massage her bottom while you stimulate her clitoris and vagina.

You can make your wife go ‘cowboy’ position by sitting upright and grinding her hips back and forth or raising and lowering her body straight up and down on your penis. By this, she can change the angle of your penis inside her vagina. Then let her lean back this will bring the head of your penis in close contact with her ‘G’ spot while you have unlimited access to caress her clitoris with one hand and the other hand can give her breast plenty of attention  by massaging them. You can also kiss and suck her nipples. One thing is guaranteed with your wife maintaining a ‘cowboy’ position–there is no dull moment. Wife you must be equally active and attentive. For instance, touching yourself in front of your husband can tell him what you want. Rub your clitoris against his pubic hair, while sex is in progress. You can lean back on him, make your clitoris a focal point for pleasure, and give him the honour of stimulating it. Some wives in their childbearing age sometimes tell me this is not possible with them but I know it is because childbirth can increase blood supply to the vagina, making it more responsive and ready for action.  While all these are taking place, it is important for the wives to take any comfortable position and also be active with your husband’s body. Whether you are facing your husband’s feet, head, or kneeling in front of him, there are lots of simple things you can do to intensify the fantastic feeling. Caress his balls, play with has pubic hair or stroke his tight. You can also enhance his enjoyment by pressing the base of his penis. Husband loves it when a wife plays with his penis while he is taking care of your clitoris. So take a few seconds to hold and squeeze his organ, paddle it from side to side, rub your face against it or use your hand to slap it gently against your tongue.

 -Funmi Akingbade (cafi.punch@yahoo.com)

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