I welcome the esteemed readers of this
column to September, the National Sickle Cell Awareness month. It is a
time for the public to reflect on the children, teenagers and adults
whose lives, education and careers have been affected by this disease.
A regular reader of this column sent me a
feedback after the last article and wanted to know whether it is
possible for her to have a sickle cell-free child, based on her
compressed history as narrated below.
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“I am 27 years old, with genotype AS and
in a stable relationship. My boyfriend and I are planning to get
married soon and start raising a family immediately. However, I am
worried because my sister has a child with sickle cell disease. They are
always in hospital and I fear this child may die anytime. I have never
told my boyfriend who also has the genotype AS, for fear of being
dumped.”
I know many people say, “Love transcends
all,” when it comes to the issue of two carriers having children; but I
disagree. Instead, I believe that knowledge is power, and with it comes
great responsibilities.
Having a child with sickle cell disease
involves significant sacrifices physically, emotionally and financially.
While two carriers should not let the trait limit their relationship,
it is important to be fully aware of the consequences of having children
together.
Before deciding on having a child with
someone without accurate confirmation of their genotype, or someone with
the sickle cell trait, ask yourself carefully: are you willing to,
knowingly, bring a child into this world to watch him/her suffer day in,
day out?
Are you willing to lose that partner for
whom you are ready to throw caution to the wind, when the crisis
assumes life-threatening dimension and possible death? Even if your
answers are empathic ‘yes,’ the truth is that the strongest
relationships can weaken from caring for a constantly sick child!
While the view expressed above seems harsh, they are the realities of sickle cell disease.
A school of thought believes that
intending couples should not sacrifice their relationships since
marriage is not all about child bearing.
They also hinge their argument on the
fact that sickle cell disease can be better managed now, as it can be
detected during conception, pregnancy and also avoided through assisted
fertilisation techniques like IVF.
Puberty
Puberty is the word used to describe the
physical changes that occur as a child’s body becomes an adult body
capable of reproduction (having babies). People with sickle cell go
through all the stages of puberty like people without sickle cell.
However, people with sickle cell often go through puberty at an older
age.
Menstrual period
A study found that girls with sickle
cell had their first menstrual period two to three years later than
girls without sickle cell. Therefore, on average, a girl with sickle
cell disease has her first period around her 15th birthday.
Pregnancy
Women with sickle cell can become
pregnant. But it is best to carefully plan when to get pregnant after
talking with their family and doctor.
Unexpected or unintended pregnancies can
be difficult for anyone, but especially for someone with sickle cell.
If they are sexually active, it is strongly recommended that they use
contraceptives until they are ready to have a baby.
It is important for all women to get
medical care during pregnancy (antenatal care), but it is especially
important for pregnant women with sickle cell disease to be closely
monitored. This is because some pregnant women with sickle cell
experience more problems.
Women with sickle cell disorder are more likely to have babies that are born early (pre-term) and that weigh less than average.
Priapism
Priapism is an unwanted, prolonged
erection of the penis. It can last for hours and often causes pain.
Priapism does not occur because of sexual feelings or desires. Rather,
it occurs when red blood cells sickle and change the chemistry of the
blood, causing a blockage of normal blood flow draining from the penis.
The erection can last over four hours and can cause permanent damage to
the penis. If untreated, priapism can lead to impotence.
Men with sickle cell disease are more
likely to have problems with fertility. They may have more difficult
time getting a woman pregnant because sickle cell disease can affect
sperm. That is not to say, however, that men with sickle cell disorder
cannot get a woman pregnant and father children. In reality, they do.
• To be concluded.
- Rotimi Adesanya (roayad@yahoo.com)
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