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For many months now, questions have rolled in from various couples asking for what to do to enjoy maximum sex. So today, we shall be studying the technicality for maximum sexual enjoyment. Sexual technicality is simply the act of treating your spouse in a very special way during sex to enhance his or passion for sex. In other words, sexual technicality is following a sexual and sensual pattern.
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First, there must be a proper preparation if sex must be enjoyed. Careful groundwork is essential; preparation begins long before bedtime as sex starts by breakfast and not by bedtime. The first homework is to settle any known or foreseen quarrel as soon as possible. Get ready for sex with a positive mind-set. Many times, couples find it difficult to have good sex because of life challenges but I have observed that if couples always wait for a perfect life situation for sex, they might not find one. So a positive mind-set for any sexual eventuality is very important.
At any given time, filth, lack of
neatness, unclearness and poor sense of orderliness have ruined many
anticipated sexual thoughts. You must be neat and clean, and at the same
time be seductively attractive and sexually appealing. Oral, armpit,
vulva and penis hygiene should be well observed, especially when the
penis is uncircumcised. The pubic hair should be well shaved to avoid
sharp coarse ends that will cause irritation on the skin of your spouse.
As simple as this appears, it has ruined good, passionate sex and made
some men to develop quick ejaculation while some wives have to apply hot
water for healing. Complete sensitive neatness is one of the guiding
rules for successful lovemaking. Much good sex has turned out to be a
nightmare just because of some offensive odour from the genitals. Since
sometimes sex might be unpredictable, it is important to brush the mouth
twice daily especially while retiring at night. This is very important
because if there is a need to use your tongue on each other, the mouth
must be brushed to prevent infection. Many couples contact some form of
toilet disease just from unwashed mouth, because the same bacteria
responsible for toilet disease are mostly also found in the mouth.
The bed should be laid with clean or new
bed spread. Old, stinking bed spreads are turn off. Get enough privacy;
make sure doors are well locked as this prevents the mind from roaming
on and off to the door side. At no given time should spouses
disapprovingly take off each other’s clothes in an offensive, rough
manner. It is important that both husband and wife slowly undress each
other. This is an exciting part of the technique and the moment this is
well in place, the best part of good groundwork has been achieved. As a
matter of fact, these particular habits mostly usher in the love play.
Couples should lay themselves bare to one
another by letting their partners know their sensitive areas and point
of triggers. For majority of ladies, it is the clitoris, the breast,
especially the nipples and let him know that it takes time before your
sexual organs respond, especially the clitoris. Make him kiss and use
his tongue to caress your breast, your nipples, neck, gently and
lovingly, then later your genitals. As this goes on, the nipples get
erect and the clitoris increases in size. Caressing should not be done
in a hurried way. Take enough time to fully enjoy each other! It is
important to understand the timing in lovemaking. There should be a
gradual building up and intensifying of emotions and sensations. Do not
stop or let up the stimulation once it begins, but continue in an
ever-increasing manner of arousal.
Basically, the whole body of a loving
couple is an erotic zone. For the man, the nape of the neck, the back of
the ear, the breast, the armpit, the navel, the inner parts of the
thigh, the groin, the pubic hair, the shaft of the penis and the eye of
the penis are their most sensitive areas. All these should be kissed
tenderly or caressed gently with the hand and tongue of the wife. If the
man’s skin is too dry, you can get a bottle of baby lotion and
seductively rub both bodies; it will send sexual signals to the whole
body. The female erotic zone include the base of the neck, the base of
the hair, the lips, the armpit, the breasts especially the nipples, the
tummy, the navel, the inner parts of the thigh, the pubic hair, the
clitoris, the lips of the vagina and the inner parts of the vagina.
All these could be tenderly touched and
caressed with the man’s hands or the tongue. Caressing various areas of
your partner’s body shows an interest in the whole person.
In foreplay, the husband and the wife
should talk freely with themselves. They should tell each other what
they want. While caressing one another without a rush, it is advisable
for the wife to take a comfortable position with legs apart so that the
man will be able to gently play with her genitals. As her husband
caresses her, she in turn plays with his nipple, the shaft of his penis,
the eye of the penis, the scrotum (some men like it when their scrotum
is fondled with).
To be continued …
- Funmi Akingbade/Punch
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