This is dangerous but
we somehow chose to overlook it in the name of fashion. Yes it is dangerous when girls often dress in ways which often creates havoc for men. The battle over what clothing is and is not acceptable for
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girls often begins early in adolescence, with parents favoring modesty
and girls favoring more adult dress.
Aight! but even the new generation mothers are also culprits for some of them love putting on seductive dresses as they go for their 'Owambe' parties. However Parents need to be aware that their teenagers daughters peer groups is of paramount importance. The values of a teen's
friends will be reflected in the teen's behavior, and this appears to
include dressing and fashion.
Seductive dressing among Girls' may also lead to problems such as rumor mongering,
assumed sexual permission and a higher incidence of date rape dangers.
Dressing too unlike their peer group, however, can cause problems for
adolescent girls including depression, dropping grades and even problems
at home.
Warning!
At the same time
Babes girls are using fashion as a factor in
their peer groups acceptance,
Guys boys are going through strong
hormone drives toward becoming sexually active. Boys also have strong needs to be accepted by their peer group.
One of the main issues in gauging popularity for boys is the expressed
success in sexual overtures.
This suggests while girls are dressing simply to fit in, they are
also opening themselves up to boys' drive toward
rape sexual conquest. Boys
are more likely to judge teenage girls who dress provocatively as being
interested in
raping sexual activity.
Remedy!
Parents of teenage daughters need to continue to be aware of their
power over their teen and to use it wisely. Approaching the issue of
fashion and dress, parents should focus on educating their teen about
the dangers of wearing inappropriate clothing.
One principle needing to stand hard and fast is the concept of
permission from parents. Parents should make checking their teens'
clothing choices and giving a yes or no a part of the daily routine.
Some things to consider when facing a teenage daughter's desire to wear more adult clothing include the following:
- Would this outfit be offensive if it were being worn by another person the same age as the daughter?
- Is the choice appropriate for age level?
- Have changes been made gradually?
- Is the choice of dress overtly sexual?
- Where will this outfit be worn? At school? On a date?
- Has the daughter made an educated choice for the clothing?
The reason for this message is to help curb the menace of rape, rape, rape and rape in our society! Yes to help reduce the case of a 72 year old man raping a 15year old girl, etc! Owwww! Thats too sad!
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ReplyDeleteWhat an article. I hope to live to see the day where these heinous sexual crimes committed by men are not constantly blamed on women. I wonder what the 5yr old and 90yr old females did to cause their rapes.
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