Sunday, August 5, 2012

Must Read: Suicide - When the odd becomes the norm

Reports of people killing themselves are fast becoming a recurring decimal. This raises questions about the mental health of Nigerians. 

Reconstructing the history of Ahmed Omobumbe’s short life is not an easy task. However, the little details available to the public are, on the surface of it, not enough to make anyone take his own life. Yet, Omobumbe saw suicide as the way out of his challenges and opted for it. That was on April 7, 2012.
According to police reports, the 40-year-old man who lived on Orisan Street, Ajangbadi, Lagos, got frustrated after
battling with an undisclosed ailment for a while.
Omobumbe, a single parent and an indigene of Auchi, Edo State, waited for his two children to go to bed before hanging himself. His corpse was discovered by one of his children around 10am the next day.
Mrs. Oyeronke Olademo is a professor at the Department of Religious Studies, University of Ilorin. Her husband, Olubunmi, was found dangling from a tree in the family’s uncompleted building at Oke-Odo, Tanke, Ilorin, on March 21.
Reports had it that Olubunmi, a businessman, had requested some money from his wife the previous day but Oyeronke was said to have declined his request. He had initially left a note threatening to commit suicide if his wife refused to give him the money before he finally committed the act.
Before anyone jumps into conclusion that those who commit suicide in later life probably do so because of their inability to confront midlife crisis, how about youth who, ordinarily, have a lot of opportunities laid before them and who, even when they stumble, still have the opportunity to start afresh, but who tend to see suicide as an easy solution to life’s challenges?
Such is the case of a third year Physics and Astronomy student of the University of Nigeria, Nsukka, Onyebuchi Okonkwo, who was reported to be in his early 20s. He committed suicide by hanging on May 31.
Okonkwo, who was once his class representative, was said to have sent his friends a text message around 11:43pm, asking them to meet him at the school’s hockey pitch. His friends heeded his invitation but they were shocked to see that he only invited them to see his dead body.
In Osun State, there have been two reported cases of youths committing suicide this year alone. One of the cases involved a Junior Secondary School One pupil, Yusuf Ifawale, who hanged himself in Ilobu.
Ifawale played a fast one on his unsuspecting parents, as he had taken permission to go and buy bread in the neighbourhood. When he didn’t return on time, they went searching for him, only to find his body dangling on a tree in the community’s primary school. He did not leave a suicide note, and his folk had no idea why he took his own life.
In the case of a 27-year-old National Diploma graduate of Osun State Polytechnic, Iree, Muili Awolumate, friends and neighbours were able to hazard a guess as to why he took his own life in Ifon area of the state. Awolumate committed suicide after three years of unemployment, they said.
If Awolumate saw self-murder as a way out of unemployment, 52-year-old Italian, Mauro Zanin, probably took the option to save face.
Zanin was allegedly involved in a $111,000 fraud, and while he was still being held in protective custody by the Economic and Financial Crimes Commission in Abuja, he committed suicide on June 19.
Zanin reportedly took his own life by strangling himself with a bed spread at the EFCC detention facility a day to his arraignment at the Federal High Court, Abuja. Five criminal charges bordering on fraud had been filed against him.
Residents of Basiri area of Ado-Ekiti, the Ekiti State capital, were thrown into confusion in September 2010 when they woke up on a Saturday morning and found the body of a 19-year-old boy hanging on a ceiling fan in a church auditorium.
The body of the boy who was identified as Aderemi Ademosu was found by some women who had gone to clean the church, popularly known as Alajahora, in preparation for the Sunday worship service. The women were shocked to see the boy dangling right inside the church, even as the doors and the windows were firmly shut. The women’s noise attracted people in the neighbourhood.
Ademosu’s death raised suspicion, as some believed that he was killed and his corpse was hung inside the church to create an impression that he committed suicide.
Sources in the neighbourhood said though Ademosu’s two relations lived in Ado-Ekiti, when he arrived from his base in Akure, Ondo State, where he was based, he opted to stay with one of his friends.
Ademosu’s friends and neighbours said he wanted to re-sit the Senior School Certificate Examination, but that he had a quarrel with one of his relations a night before the tragic incident. He was found dead the following morning inside the church.
But if Ademosu’s death was intriguing, the alleged suicide of a five-year-old boy, Feranmi Oloyede, at Moferere Area of Ado-Ekiti, was more puzzling.
Feranmi, who was said to be in Primary One in a school in Ikere-Ekiti, was found dangling on a tree at the back of his parents’ residence.
The boy was said to be playing with a rope which he allegedly tied to the branch of a tree at the back of the house while standing on a table. He was suspected to have swung the rope around his neck, kicked away the support from underneath his feet and died in the process.
The incident caused pandemonium in the area as many wondered how a five-year-old-boy could have the strength to tie a rope tightly to the tree where he eventually hanged.
Miss Abiola Aderonke revealed that she, too, had contemplated suicide following her inability to secure a job as a result of a disability occasioned by an accident.
Aderonke lost her left arm in an auto crash along Ondo-Akure Road. She said she had had to live with the stigma of having one arm, with the attendant hardship of learning how to live with the disability without any economic support.
The problem made her to think of killing herself, and she would have done so but for providence which brought her in contact with Governor Kayode Fayemi.
Fayemi saw her during a Free Health Mission in Ikogosi, and promised to procure an artificial limb for her so that she could continue living without any inhibition. It was this promise that saved Aderonke from her suicide mission.
But then, why would anybody want to take his or her own life? Professionals proffer suggestions.
According to the World Health Organisation statistics, globally, one person commits suicide every 40 seconds. Consequently, it is the 13th leading cause of death worldwide.
Worldwide, WHO says, the suicide rate has gone up by 60 per cent over the last five decades, mainly in industrialised nations. It however states that there is hardly any country that is immune to the problem.
And, according to Bethesda, Maryland, United States of America-based Adult, Child and Adolescent Psychiatrist, Dr. Roxanne Dryden-Edwards, nearly one million people worldwide commit suicide each year, with anywhere from 10 million to 20 million suicide attempts annually.
In recent times, Nigeria has witnessed an upward trend in suicide cases which transcends gender, age group, social class and religion.
A Consultant Psychiatrist at the Federal Neuro-Psychiatrist Hospital, Yaba, Lagos, Dr. Wale Ogunlowo, said suicide was the commonest cause of psychiatric death, adding that it was fast creeping into the Nigerian society.
He said, “The incidence of suicide is fast increasing in Nigeria, but the problem is that it is being poorly reported because of our cultural beliefs. The world over, it is the commonest cause of psychiatric death.
“The issue is that, to the mind of the person contemplating suicide, it appears to be an effective way to end their pain. They feel that their pain is intolerable, inescapable, and interminable. However, this is not the way to solve a problem.”
Ogunlowo attributed the increasing rate of suicide in the country to the socio-economic problems bedevilling many people, leading to depression, which might become suicidal if not arrested in time.
He said, “Other risk factors include a person’s inability to cope with major life stressors, like the loss of loved ones, schizophrenia, psychosocial problems, or alcohol and substance abuse.”
Ogunlowo noted that there were no specific warning signs from people who contemplate suicide, adding that the commonest documented method used in committing the act include self-poisoning, hanging self, immolation, drowning, and jumping from heights, among others.
“When one notices that someone seems not to be coping with distress or depression, it is necessary that a psychiatrist and other mental health experts are consulted for help. Also, common objects of suicide should be totally removed from reach and they should be closely monitored.”
He said, “People who live alone, the elderly, those with previous suicide attempts, personality disorders, especially those with aggressive and narcissistic features, are at great risks of committing suicide.”
An Associate Professor of Counseling and Correctional Psychology, University of Ibadan, Dr. Oyesoji Aremu warned, “Depression is a sign of hopelessness,” he says. “When this happens, an individual feels the best way to respond to a state of hopelessness is through suicide.
“Suicide could also be as a result of failure of coping skills. Challenges of life are normal, but when these become overwhelming and expected social buffers (human beings, including friends) are not there, suicide may ensue.”
To guide against suicide, especially among the youth, Aremu advised that parents and guardians must be their children’s friends and listen to them by navigating with them into their world.
He said, “In Nigeria, there are many stressors. But people should learn to speak out. Music, especially soul-lifting songs, is another way of coping with depression that could lead to suicide. Another way is for people to read inspiring books. This is called bibliotherapy.”
A psychiatrist and former Head of Psychiatry Department, Ladoke Akintola University, Osogbo campus, Dr. Oyewole Adeoye, pointed out that suicide could be triggered by hopelessness about one’s future, as a result of one’s socio-economic status emanating from unemployment after such a person must have suffered through school.
He said, “Majorly, the fear of the future propels people to contemplate suicide, especially when that future appears bleak due to socio-economic problems which are triggered by unemployment.”
A sociologist and former Dean, Faculty of Social Sciences, University of Lagos, Prof. Lai Olurode, examined some situations in which suicide could occur.
He explained, “There is what is called search for meaning of existence. What is the purpose of existence? Everyone exists for something. Some people want to live big, live in big houses, and drive big cars. But if this does not happen, life does not have meaning anymore for such a fellow. Maybe after years of graduation, he/she did not secure a job, ultimately, he/she may decide to end it all by committing suicide.
“Unlike the old norms in the society where someone’s success is everyone success, the social media have redefined the world we are in now. It is now more individualistic. Whatever happens to others is not anyone’s business. The society is so detached from the individual.”
Olurode also pointed out that unemployment and economic meltdown, in which businesses were crashing, could also trigger suicide.
The Executive Director, Markaz Islamic and Arabic Institute, Lagos, Sheik Habebullahi Al-Ilory, said Islam did not encourage or permit anyone to terminate his life or that of another person for any cause.
Quoting from the Holy Qu’ran 6:32, he said anyone who terminated his/her life, either by hanging or poisoning, would appear before Allah on the day of judgment with the rope or the poison with which he/she committed suicide. Afterwards, he said, the person would be sent to hell.
He said, “Whoever kills himself or terminates his own soul is likened to killing a whole nation or mankind. Suicide is totally forbidden in Islam.”
A pastor and the general overseer of City of God Faith Ministry, Lagos, Pastor Segun Obayelu, notes that when a person is downcast, most times, such one tends to lose hope and dreams.
He says, “At that point, such a person starts to wander and lose hope in God, and when hope and dreams are lost, disruptive impulses then set in.
“And when these disruptive impulses start growing and there is no solution, such a person might begin to consider suicide. That was what happened to Judas, after he betrayed Jesus Christ. He thought about it and concluded that there was nothing else to live for.”
He explains that if anyone takes his own life such a person cannot make Heaven. According to him, “It is God that created life, and no one has the right to assume the position of God to take either his own life or that of another person.”
The Nigeria Police Force classifies suicide under ‘Offences Against Persons’ in sections 326 and 327 of the Criminal Code.
The police public relations officer, Lagos State Command, Mrs. Ngozi Braide, said suicide statistics were compiled annually by the command, and that she could only provide the one for this year, which would have to wait until the year ends in December.
She said, “We don’t release suicide statistics reported in the state on a monthly basis; it is released on an annual basis.”
When our correspondent requested the one for last year, she said she could not defend its issuance because she had yet to resume as the PPRO then.
She stated, “I cannot give you the one of last year, because I did not prepare it. I can only give you the one for this year in December.”
The Deputy Police Public Relations Officer, Force Headquarters, Abuja, Mr. Frank Mba, also said it would be difficult to provide the exact figure of suicide cases in Nigeria because not all cases were reported formally.
And while it was difficult to get the statistics of suicide rate in the country, Mba said the 2007 and 2008 figures covered all the states of the federation, including the Federal Capital Territory, Abuja, the special police units at the railway stations, sea and airports.
Mba said Nigeria recorded more cases of suicide in 2007 than in 2008. While there were 154 reported cases in 2007, the figure dropped to 141 in 2008. Lagos State recorded the highest figure of 42 cases or almost 30 per cent of all cases in 2008 alone, followed by Oyo, 13; Anambra, 12; and Bauchi, 12.
In 2007, Bauchi led with 25 cases, followed by Edo, Kano and Anambra with 12 cases each.
Mba also disclosed that some states such as Lagos, Abia, Oyo and Rivers recorded increases in suicide cases between 2007 and 2008. In Lagos, the figure rose from a mere three in 2007 to 42 in 2008, representing about 1,300 per cent increase.
Mba said one of the reasons the actual figures for suicide were lacking was because of the African tradition which considers suicide abominable and, as such, hardly features in normal, regular conversation.
Section 326 of the Criminal Code condemns “Aiding Suicide” and stipulates that, “Any person who procures another to kill himself or counsels another to kill himself and thereby induces him to do so or aids another in killing himself is guilty of a felony and is liable to imprisonment for life.”
And Section 327of the same Code tackles attempted suicide and provides as follows: “Any person who attempts to kill himself is guilty of a misdemeanour and is liable to imprisonment for one year.”
Heads of Disaster Management Unit of the Departments of Disaster Management and Intelligence, Nigeria Security and Civil Defence Corps, Osun State, Mr. Olaniyi Babalola and Alhaji Hammed Bodunrin, respectively, provided the statistics of suicides in Osun State.

-Punch

Leave a comment...thanks!

No comments:

Post a Comment