Does he or she think heavenly about
kissing? Does he or she prioritise the act of good kissing and other
orally administered forms of arousal? None of these should be
underestimated; it’s a tool for communicating great sex to your spouse.
Try it. Tell your spouse what you want. Ask what he or she likes. The
truth of the matter is if you get to know yourself and your spouse,
you’ll have a much more erotic and explosive moments in your sexual
relationship.
A lot of wives are very responsive to a
man’s voice during lovemaking. If a husband has verbal facility and can
entice his wife through his voice, that can become a powerful part of
his great sex tools.
Do not paint a distorted picture for
another man, ask for something new you can take home if you happen to
talk with your friend about sex. When men do talk, they often boast
about their sexual prowess. They tend to exaggerate their exploits,
painting distorted pictures of their sex lives to one another. A lot of
men end up thinking that their sex life is missing something, that other
men are having wild sex or more frequent satisfactory sex.
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As much as you may share sexual ideas
with others, do not compare your sex life with unhealthy pornographic
display. Couples should not try to learn everything about sex from
pornography. But a lot may be needful if the erotic films are very
educative and informative. Pornography is populated by flawlessly formed
women and men with imprinted art work abdomen and ‘out of this world’
endowments. Adult entertainment makes many husbands and wives wonder:
why can’t I have a wife like this or why can’t my husband be just like
this man? Beside the fact that real people are not always with perfect
bodies, one of the most destructive myths of pornography is that it
convinces so many couples that they are either frigid or lack good
libido, whereas they are just perfect and very okay. They forget that
pornography is self-selecting men and women who have been injected with
killing artificial libido enhancing drugs. Some of the other fictions
that pornography perpetuates are the idea that women are always primed
and ready (but you and I know that in the real world, many wives do say
‘no’ to sex most times if not all the time); and pornography portrays
that the same moves work on every partner. Same moves do not always work
for everyone. One man’s food may be another man’s poison. There is a
need to keep studying your spouse regularly. Another thing is that
satisfying sex always culminates in orgasm. Many couple have never
experienced orgasm and they are doing pretty well sexually. Pornography
can inspire us to greater sexual exploration. But learning from it takes
time to implement, so there is a need for partners to be patient with
each other.
Focusing on pleasurable sensations has
over the years helped many couples a lot. These are techniques ranging
from eye-gazing to eye-caressing and synchronised breathing that help
keep you in the moment and now because great sex happens in the present.
It doesn’t happen in the future. This is also applicable to anxiety.
When couples fix their mind on anxiety about their performance, they
mess things up; if couples can just relax and don’t bother about how
well they are going to perform sexually, this will open them up to
better sex and they will have great sex all the time.
Lastly, couples are encouraged to make
sure they are happy with one another as this helps them to be healthy.
When a husband in particular is naturally happy, he gets instant ragging
erection and a very hard steaming ejaculation. As the saying goes, the
best measure of a man’s character is the company he keeps. But what
about his sexual health? According to a recent research, the best
measure of a man’s sexual performance is his erection. Good erection
equates real man and great sex. A man’s overall health directly affects
the quality of his erections. And if the promise of longer life isn’t
enough to convince men to take care of themselves, the promise of harder
erections might be.
Ironically, a husband’s sexual
performance and the quest for great sex is still the greatest hook to
get him to make some real healthy good life changes. This is because it
has become hard to deny the importance of erections in men’s health. It
is now clear that men with heart disease are more likely to develop
erectile dysfunction (ED). Men with ED were 80% more likely to develop
heart disease than men without ED — regardless of smoking, high blood
pressure, diabetes, and weight. Men in their 40s who had ED had the most
dramatic increase in heart disease risk. They were more than twice as
likely to develop heart disease as men of the same age without ED. Men
with moderate-to-severe ED were 65 per cent more likely to develop heart
disease over a 10-year period compared with men who didn’t have ED.
If a blockage forms in the heart, it
causes a heart attack; in the brain, it causes a stroke. What does that
have to do with an erection? To get erect, the penis must become
engorged with blood; and for that to happen, the endothelium must relax,
allowing the arteries to widen and let blood flow into the penis.
Arteries that lead to the penis are smaller than the arteries that lead
to the brain or the heart. And most times, these arteries get blocked
leading to ED. By definition, having ED means a man cannot get an
erection hard enough for penetration or one that lasts long enough for
him to reach orgasm. So to have great sex, make sure you are happy,
avoid anger, worries anxiety and watch your health.
- Funmi Akingbade/Punch
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